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Year in Review: 2016
Jenna & Tristan

Jenna & Tristan

Cheers to the new year!  Another year has come to an end, and to be honest, I think I'm ok with it.  Don't get me wrong: it was another fantastic year, and I feel seriously blessed to have the life that I do!  I get to share it with an incredible man, and am surrounded by a truly inspiring tribe.  But, 2016 was filled with both highs and low's for me.  It was a year of wedding's that will top my list for years to come, but also a year of working myself to pure exhaustion, and enduring some personal struggles that I am still recovering from.  12 months is a long time, and a lot of things can happen;  It's been quite the journey, and I am really looking forward to reflecting back on it all.  We tackled 15 weddings, 7 events, and made it onto Vogue (eek!).  We got to work with some of the industries best, and started to spread our wings a bit further beyond this lovely Island of ours.  We launched a sister company to FKE, Heyday Events, and started to focus more on nurturing and training of young planners.  These year end reviews can put so much into perspective and I am so grateful to have you follow along!

I kicked the year off with a mission to be the healthiest version of myself possible.  I joined a half marathon run clinic, and instantly loved the connections that I made through the running community.  Planning for the upcoming weddings was going at full tilt, and the rest of January was spent doing what basically everyone does in January: a whole lotta nothing.  

Erich McVey Photography

Erich McVey Photography

In February, we managed to sneak away to one of my favourite places, Salt Spring Island, for a relaxing weekend with good friends.  I was also completely floored and incredibly honoured to be included on this list by Vogue, of the world's top wedding planners.  Talk about a pinch me moment! And I loved seeing this wedding featured on Wedding Chicks!

Jon Mark Photo

Jon Mark Photo

We celebrated everyone in the Victoria's Wedding industry in March, with another Meetup party!  And I was seriously stoked to see our Taylor Swift shoot from last year, featured on Inspired by This here and here.  At the end of the month, we took off to the beautiful Galiano Island and enjoyed a magical weekend at Bodega Ridge with friends over Easter.  If you take anything from this blog post, let it be this: go to Galiano Island immediately!  

Lillie Louise Photography

Lillie Louise Photography

April saw the start of the wedding season, and the first one was definitely a good one!  We also teamed up with a slew of talented vendors to host a Farmed and Foraged dinner, in support of the Nature Conservancy of Canada.  It was a beautiful night, and a meal I will surely not forget! Mid month, I took off down to Seattle for a weekend with Bash Specialty, to shop and hang with some other fabulous industry ladies.  

Kim Kalyn Photography

Kim Kalyn Photography

We were hired to plan a ridiculously romantic proposal (she said yes!).  And the month was finished off with a very special 1st birthday party we planned for one of our best friends daughter.  I mean, if you can't celebrate the big milestones like turning 1, what can you celebrate?

Taylor Roades Photography

Taylor Roades Photography

In May, we worked on an insanely gorgeous elopement, for some insanely wonderful Texans!  More of that to come in the new year...  We married a doctor & a runner, and I completed the Oak Bay Half Marathon as well!  Fitness goal achieved.  Phew! We also had our first ever Heyday Events wedding!  Paula, one of our fabulous planners, knocked it out of the park!

Erich McVey Photography

Erich McVey Photography

The Nickersons

The Nickersons

The Nickersons

The Nickersons

June is when the season really started to take off, and thus began the most intense 6 weeks of my career.  Before things got really crazy though, I helped completely surprise this lovely lady on her 30th birthday, and indulged in a night of charcuterie and wine.  Then, we went from Victoria's inner harbour, to Pemberton's mountains, to Salt Spring's coast, to Hatley Castle, to a sprawling field, and back to Hatley Castle, all in the matter of 6 weeks.  Man, I'm tired just thinking about it.  Amongst all that crazinesses though, were some pretty incredible weddings, and ones that I am beyond honoured to have been a part of.  We got to work with the insanely talented Erich McVey on one (another pinch me moment!) and witness love like we've never seen before.  I can't wait to share ALL of them with you in the new year!

Luke Liable Photography

Luke Liable Photography

Shane Deringer Photography 

Shane Deringer Photography 

EA Photo

EA Photo

In August, Nick & I managed to escape to Ottawa for a weekend and spend some QT time with some very good friends.  The rest of the summer was a beautiful whirlwind, and filled with a whole lotta pretty!  We got to bounce around a ton of different venues, and loved spending time with every single one of our couples.  

Jenna & Tristan

Jenna & Tristan

Sambajoy

Sambajoy

In September, we finished the season off with a couple more gems.  I then spent a week in Alberta visiting my brother and my 2 nephews.  They made my heart melt every. friggin. day.

Wendy Laurel Photography

Wendy Laurel Photography

October was spent in total recovery mode, and getting ready to escape to the sun, as we always do at this time of the year.  We spent 3 magical weeks in Hawaii, splitting our time between Oahu and Maui.  This years trip couldn't have come at a better time for us, and it was the perfect way to recharge.  Spending an afternoon with photographer superstar, Wendy Laurel, was a highlight for me, as well as celebrating our 2 year wedding anniversary!  

The return to reality brought on a slew of meetings in November, and left me feeling ridiculously excited for all our 2017 couples!  As the holiday's quickly approached, I focused on spending as many relaxing nights cuddled by the fire, and preparing for Christmas.  On Dec 15th, on the eve of my 30th Birthday (#flirtythirties), I was given the ultimate surprise.  My amazingingly incredible husband, planned a surprise weekend in LA for me with some good friends!  I don't think I can ever complain about him ever again! haha!  It was the perfect way to ring in a new decade, and to reflect back on the year that was.  

Wendy Laurel Photography

Wendy Laurel Photography

Happy Holidays 2016

Photo cheer by the always awesome Jesse Holland.

The snow (was) snowing, the wind has definitely been blowing, and I'm overflowing with love for all of you, that will definitely keep me warm! (too cheesy?  never!)  We are getting ready to sign off for the holiday season, and bid 2016 adieu.  And as always for this time of year, I am left feeling overwhelmed reflecting back on all the love and support that the FKE team has received over this past year, and feel so blessed to have such incredible clients, vendors, and (most importantly) teammates that we get to work with on a day to day basis.  Thank you everyone for making this truly the best job a girl could imagine!  

This holiday season has felt refreshingly relaxing, and I've loved every minute of it so far.  We've spent lots of time with family and friends, enjoyed many a nights curled up in front of the fire watching netflix, and consumed too many delicious meals and cocktails to count.  #noregrets.  The next few days will hopefully be filled with much of the same, and I can't wait to spend the weekend surrounded by all those I love the most.  I hope that your holiday season is filled with many joys, laughs and loved ones as well, and have fabulous rest of the year!  

xo
Barb

Our Guilty Pleasures: Edition 1

Things are starting to get very festive around the FKE office! We may or may not be distracted by picking out our favourite holiday Spotify playlists, and chatting about the best Christmas movies... But don't worry, we still manage to get work done! All of this chit chat though, inspired us to create a monthly blog post of our favourite things of the moment! 

On Our Playlists:

Favourites on the Re-watch List 

Festive Cocktails of Choice

What are your current favs? Leave a comment below!
xo Paula

ps - is anyone else as obsessed with this video as we are?

Another season finished
Photo by: The Nickersons

Photo by: The Nickersons

Well, I think it is safe to say that things have been a wee bit quiet over on the blog the past few months.  What can I say....wedding season, eh?! And what a season it was!!!  I am incredibly grateful for all the amazing couples, vendors and teammates that I had the privilege of working with over the past 6 months, and I am still processing all the awesomeness that it was!  

We are going to be working extra hard to play catch up on the blog and site, and will be sharing some sneak peeks of the 2016 wedding season pdq.  We are also all really looking forward to a few weeks of r&r coming up here soon, and can't wait to return back to work rejuvenated and inspired for the 2017 season to come!  

xo
Barb

Year in Review: 2015
AMERIS

AMERIS

We are already half way through January, and so I know that I am a little bit behind on the year end review, but better late than never, right?!!  2015 was an amazing year, for SO many reasons.  First off, following on the footsteps of 2014, which was the year of our wedding, it was actually really nice to not have anything huge personally on the horizon, and to just “be”. Now of course, my version of normal is still a bit busy….in 2015, we had: 17 weddings, 2 events, 2 styled shoots and the launch of our new website!  January got the year off on the right foot with a winter wedding at the beautiful Butchart Gardens, which you can check out here.  We don’t get to plan off season weddings too often, but when we do, it sure is fun!

Rita Steensens Photography

Rita Steensens Photography

In February, full on planning mode took over, as our days were filled with client meetings, site visits, and even a few cake tastings (tough life).  We were also knee deep in the re-design of our website, thanks to the crazy talented Caribou Creative.

Kim Kalyn Photography

Kim Kalyn Photography

Taylor Roades Photography

Taylor Roades Photography

April was b.u.s.y.  It began with a long weekend spent down in Napa with some very close friends.  Great wine, delicious food, and some california sunshine?  Just what the doctor ordered to get us ramped up for the upcoming wedding season.  Once back home, we took part in an elopement styled shoot as well as a ridiculously fun Taylor Swift themed shoot.  Keep your eyes peeled for those features this year…they are good! 

AMERIS

AMERIS

And seeing our own wedding featured on Style Me Pretty, here, was basically a dream come true.

AMERIS

AMERIS

Ryan MacDonald Photography

Ryan MacDonald Photography

With the start of May, came wedding season!  We got to design weddings at a castle, a villa, and a winery, and were blessed with beautiful spring weather for all of it.  We also combined forces again with Jesse Holland, and planned another Industry Meetup for all the hard working vendors out there

AMERIS

AMERIS

Brian Van Wyk Weddings

Brian Van Wyk Weddings

AMERIS

AMERIS

In the middle of July, Nick & I were able to sneak off to Salt Spring (one of our happy places for sure) and celebrate 9 years together.  The weddings throughout the summer were all drool worthy, in my humble opinion.  Each one was so different, and every weekend, I thanked my lucky stars that we get to work with such fun and design savvy couples.  

Lauren Kurc Photography

Lauren Kurc Photography

In August, FKE took a weekend road trip to Squamish, for our first mainland wedding! This was a huge milestone for us, and such a fun experience.  We even managed to get the men in our lives to don an apron and get to work lol!  

Kristyn Harder Photography 

Kristyn Harder Photography 

Kristyn Harder Photography 

Kristyn Harder Photography 

Every year, there are a few weddings that stand out to me, for one reason or another.  In September, a wedding in picturesque Fanny Bay, was just that.  The entire weekend was filled with so much love, and the wedding went off without a hitch

Nadia Hung Photography

Nadia Hung Photography

After an incredible 6 months of weddings, the girls and I celebrated the end of the season in October, at the Oak Bay Beach Hotel Spa, and indulged in a day of decadence.  Having Laura & Emma a part of the team has been a game changer, and I couldn't imagine doing this without them!  At the end of the month, it was time for my annual personal vacation, and so back to Maui Nick & I went, where we celebrated our 1 year wedding anniversary and basically sat on the beach and did nothing. Total bliss.  And when I got home, there was a very exciting box of Wedluxe Magazines, with our black pearl feature.  Here's a sneak for you, and more to come soon!

After a fabulous trip, and returning fully re-charged for the winter, November kept us busy.  Nick & I planned a Tofino Running Retreat.  We were blessed with probably the most perfect weather ever in Tofino (which is notoriously rainy) and I loved getting to bring the French Kiss touch to this event.  The next week, I hoped on a ferry with Laura and a car full of other vendors, and headed over to the BC Wedding Awards.  Always a fun event, and it so awesome getting to see 500+ wedding professionals come together for 1 night. 

Jesse Holland Photography

Jesse Holland Photography

In the first week of December, I had the opportunity to join Nick, once again, in Austin, Texas.  This is SUCH a fun town, and after experiencing it last year for the first time, I knew what I was in for.  Amongst his work meetings, we managed to scope out a couple of Speakeasy’s, eat at some incredible restaurants, and discover more of what keeps Austin weird.  Once back in Victoria (this time to stay a while), it was major catch up time on work, and time to prep for the holidays.  Phew!  What a year!  2016 has a lot to live up to, but I feel like it is up to the challenge ;)

Happy Holidays 2015
Photo by the lovely Jesse Holland.

Photo by the lovely Jesse Holland.

Well folks, we are just a few short sleeps away from Christmas, and I have been thoroughly enjoying all the holiday cheer and festivities that is around this time of year.  It has been an incredible year for us, and we have so much to be thankful for.  Work wise, we have so much to be grateful for, and Emma, Laura & I thank our lucky stars that we get to work with such lovely clients and vendor friends day in and day out.  Our year-end review will be on the blog next week, so stay tuned for sure!  

Getting to spend the holidays with family & friends is definitely at the top of the list, and I can hardly believe that this year will be Nicks & my 10th Christmas together!  I have loved all the traditions we have created over the years, with my favourite being our Christmas Eve.  It is a night that is always filled with mulled wine, croquettes, and staying up until the wee hours of the night with old friends.  So, as we continue to prepare for Santa's big night on Friday, I want to wish everyone a very Merry Christmas, and hope that your holidays are filled with many laughs, cozy moments with loved ones, and wonderful memories.

xo
Barb

An afternoon in the Vineyard

Last Sunday was the 4th bi-annual Victoria Wedding Industry Meetup, and what a lovely day it was!  Set at DeVine Vineyards, we enjoyed many a glasses of wine, great food, relaxing music, lots of fun, and all while soaking up the incredible view!! (Seriously...if you haven't had a chance to check out this place, do it now!!)  Planning these Meetups, along with Jesse Holland Photography, is always one of my favourite things to do each year, as what is more fun than planning a party for your fellow industry mates?!! And getting to really relax and catch up with lots of new & old friends, is really what it's all about! 

This Springs event was a huge success, and would definitely have not been possible without some incredibly talented people.  And if you're interested in seeing what a party thrown by wedding vendors for wedding vendors, looks like, make sure to check out Jesse Holland's photos below! A special thanks to: 

Castro Boateng 
DeVine Vineyards
Ruth & Dean
Bash Specialty
Tuktu Paper Co.
Trend Decor
Four Frames Photobooth
Geoffrey Lundstrom
Verbena Floral Design
Scene About Town